Icyaha
ni iki?
Icyaha ni igikorwa umuntu akoze
kidaturutse ku kwemera, ukwmera gukeshwa kwakira Inkuru Nziza, bikaba igikorwa
cyose kinyuranije n’amategeko Imana yadusabye kubahiriza yifashishije umugaragu
wayo Musa ku musozi wa Horebu n’andi mabwiriza tuba twishyiriyeho tukayemeza.
Icyaha kandi ni igikorwa kidutandukanya
n’Imana kitubuza kubahiriza itegeko rya Roho twishingikirije impamvu
zidafututse zishingiye ku byifuzo by’irari ry’umubiri wacu. Icyaha kijyana no kwimura
Imana yaguhanze mu buzima bwawe, ukimika indi mana ihuje n’ibyifuzo bibi byawe,
gukora icyaha ni ugusuzugura Umuremyi
n’Umugenga wa byose ugasigara ugengwa n’ibiremwa byaremewe kugengwa nawe.
Icyaha ni igikorwa kikwambura ubugingo kikagukururira mu rupfu. Uwareba hirya
no hino, agatekereza ku byirwa bibera ku isi, ashobora gutekereza ko urukundo
rwahariwe ikibi naho icyiza kigashyirwa inyuma, kigatereranwa nk’ikitagira
agaciro.
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Urukundo
rwahariwe ikibi
Uko umuntu agenda arushaho
kwiyegurira icyaha ni nako na cyo kigenda kirushaho kumwegukana kimuhuma amaso
y’umutima: akabura ubwenge ari kwiga no kuminuza, akaba ikirumbo ari inkumi
cyangwa umusore wakagombye kurushinga akibaruka, akaba umupfu ari umubyeyi
ubereye kurera no kwizihiza urugo, ugasanga umuntu arannyegwa n’abo abyaye, akagirwa
inama n’abo yujukuruje. Bene uwo ikimutera umuneza kibonaka muri ibi cyangwa
kikaba kibishamikiyeho:
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Ubusambanyi
nyirizina n’ibikorwa bijyana na bwo
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Gutungwa
n’utw’abandi , gutungwa n’ibyo atakoreye
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Guhuguza
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Kubatwa
n’ibiyobyabwenge
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Kuragura
no kuraguza
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Kwiba
no kuriganya…
Mu mpamvu zituma umutu akunda
gukora icyaha, harimo kudatekereza neza no gushigikira intege nke ze aho
kuzikomeza mu kwemera, mu rukundo n’iyogezabutumwa. Nimucyo turebere hamwe
zimwe mu mpamvu zituma abantu baryoherwa n’urupfu, bagahunga ubuzima ku bushake bwabo
cyangwa bibagwiririye bakabikomeza bibwira ko bazafata umwanzuro wo
kubisohokamo nyuma nyamara bakaneshwa na byo.
Icyaha
gikekwaho uburyohe
Hari ibyaha usanga abantu
batekereza ko bitanga uburyohe n’umunezero. Iyo usesenguye usanga bitanga
umunezero ariko utaramba,wa wundi usimburwa no guhangayika guturutse ku kwicuza
icyatumye ubyirohamo; muri byo twavuga nko gusambana no gukoresha
ibiyobyabwenge. Ibi byaha kandi usnga abenshi babyirohamo igihe bemeye kugirwa
inama zipfuye n’ababatanze gupfa bahagaze, bajyenda wagira ngo ni abantu kandi
ari urupfu rwambaye isura ya muntu. Igisubizo abo bamaze kwangirika bahurizaho
ni ugushimisha umubiri. Gushimisha umubiri si icyaha, icyaha ni uburyo
wakoresheje uwushimisha. Uburyo bubereye mu gushimisha umubiri wacu ni ubwo
tubwirijwe na Roho w’Imana bugashimwa na
Yezu kuko n’ubundi uyu mubiri ari urugingo rwa Kristu n’ingoro ya Roho
Mutagatifu, bityo ukaba ugomba guhora ukeye kandi ukereye kwakira uwo Roho ugomba gucumbikira no kuba
urugingo ruzima rwa yezu kristu.
Icyaha
gituma bamenyekana
Hari ubwo umuntu akora icyaha abigambiriye
kugira ngo bamumenye, abe ikirangirire kandi ahembwe;ibyo bikamutera kubahwa
cyangwa gutinywa na benshi, aha twatamga urugero nko kwica no kwiba: Umuntu
aricara agacura umugambi wo kugaragaza ubwenge bwe, ibyo yavumbuye, agakoresha
ikoranabuhanga asahura banki, bamara kumufata akaba ikirangirire rimwe na rimwe
bikanamubera impamvu yo kugororerwa. Umuntu yakagombye gutekereza cyane kandi
neza mu gushaka uburyo buboneye bwo kugaragaza ubwenge bwe atabinyujije mu
bikorwa bibi binashobora kumuvutsa ubuzima mu gihe afatiwe mu cyuho cyangwa akagerageza
guhunga.
Kameremuntu
Umuntu afite kamere y’inyantege nke
imukururira mu gukora icyaha kurusha uko imwerekeza mu nzira y’agakiza, n’ubwo
bimeze bityo, twibuke ko umuntu yaremenwe umudendezo kandi ahabwa ubwenge
bugomba kumufasha guhitamo hagati y’ikibi n’icyiza. Ibyo bikabera mu mutima we
ugaragara nk’ugizwe n’ibice bibiri cyangwa imitima mito ibiri ikorera hamwe
ariko igakora mu buryo bunyuranye. Umwe uti kora ibi ureke biriya, undi uti
kora biriya ureke ibi, nuko umuntu agahitamo neza cyangwa nabi.
Umutima w’umuntu usa n’ufite
ibyicaro bibiri; kimwe gicumbikiye Roho wa Nyagasani kikarangwa no guhora
kitugira inama kikanatwemeza aho twahemutge, ni umutimanama utubwiriza
ibyo Roho ashaka, Ikindi gice ni cyo
kidukururira mu busabane na Nyakibi kigakora nk’icumbi rya shitani yo
ishimishwa no kudutanya na Rurema. Umuntu ntagomba kwemera kugengwa na kamere,
ari byo kugengwa na Sekibi, ahubwo nagengwe n’itegeko ry’umutimanama mu
mbaraga, ubushake n’ubwenge bye byose byunganiwe n’isengesho ry’ukuri.
Gutekereza nabi
Indi mpamvu ituma umuntu abatwa
n’icyaha ni ukudatekereza neza. Hari abantu batagira umuco wo gushidikanya no
gusesengura ku byo bumva, bavuga cyangwa babona bigatuma basabira ibyo bahuye na byo byose nk’isuri. Dufate urugero:
umuhungu abana n’undi ngo bitange
iki ? umukobwa asanga undi ngo bamare iki? Umuntu akabwirwa ko atakunda
undi atamusoma ndetse ngo anamukabakabe mu mabere! Umuntu ntiyakwambara neza
atanitse amabere! Umuntu yakubwira ko agukunda kandi yanga kuryamana nawe!
Abantu, mu kwirinda sida n’izindi ndwara zandurira mu mibonano mpuzabitsina,
inda no kubyara, basigaye bahitamo kwimara irari bashishirana (Carresser)
bikinisha (Mastrubation), ng’ubwo kandi bubahirije itegeko ry’Imana ryo
kudasambana! Abantu barakuramo inda nk’ukuramo umenda! Ibi byose kimwe n’ibindi
bitarondowe hari ubwo byemerwa n’aboshwa na rukoramahano nk’ukuri kugomba
gukurikizwa kubera ko batabitekerejeho kuburyo bwimbitse ngo bumvire umutimanama
wabo, niba bakiwugira. Nuko umukobwa akambarira ubusa umuhungu yibwira ko ari
gukuza no gukomeza urukundo nyamara nya musore agatinzwa no kumubona kugira ngo
batandukane. Bavandimwe nimucyo dutekereze
mu buryo bunenga kandi busesengura, tumurikiwe na roho Mutagatifu ni bwo
tuzatandukana n’icyaha kiri kugenda gihindura isura uko imyaka igenda ihita. Nyagasani
natumurikire kugira ngo tubashe gutekereza neza, gutahura icyha mu masura
yacyo, kugihunga, kucyamagana no gutera intambwe tugisohokamo duhamya
ibirindiro mu nzira y’agakiza.
GUSOHOKA MU CYAHA
Iyo umuntu akoze icyaha igihe
kirekire, ageraho akagifata nk’icyiza kuko icyiza nyacyo kiba cyaramuhunze,
agasigara ari indiri y’icyaha ari byo kuvuga indiri ya Sekibi. Ni byiza ko
umuntu yanga icyaha,akacyirinda mbere yo kugushwa na cyo; mu ntege nke ze
agomba guhora ababajwe no kugirana ubusabane n’icyaha kandi agahishikazwa, mu mbaraga ze zose, no kutazagisubira ukundi
igihe yakiguyemo. Umuntu, akurikije inama nziza akesha abavandimwe cyangwa
abiyeguriye Nyagasani, nyuma yo kugaragaza icyaha yakoze uko kivugwa atagishakiye
izina nyoroshacyaha, Ashobora kugisohokamo
yitabaje ububasha bw’Imana buherekeza umuhati we.
Kuvuga icyaha wakoze, utagerageje
kugihindura cyangwa kukivuga mu mvugo yoroheje, imbaraga ukoresha mu guharanira
icyiza binyuze mu bikorwa n’isengesho ni byo ntwaro ya mbere mu gusohoka mu
cyaha cyakubase. Ibi bikaba ingirakamaro rwose mu gihe uwabaswe n’icyaha
agaragaje abamwosha kandi akazibukira kongera gukururukana na bo ukundi ahubwo
agaharanira imigenzo myiza idatana n’isakaramentu ry’imbabazi.
